A monthly email catch⁠-⁠up with your friends.

For friends who live far apart. Everyone in your circle answers a few questions. All the answers arrive together in one email, once a month. No app, no feed, no group chat.

Start your circle

First month free.

How is work going?

How it works

Propose

Week 1: Anyone in your circle can propose questions, or let us suggest some.

Answer

Weeks 2–4: Everyone answers on their own time. Timezones and busy weeks welcome.

Read

Edition day: We compile everyone's answers and photos into a new edition, delivered to your inbox.

See it for yourself.

Easier to show than to explain. So here is an example edition, as it lands in your inbox.

Read the whole example edition

Example

The usual crowd

Edition #4 · March 2026

How are you doing?

Sofía

Honestly, better than January. The big one first: they gave me the project. It means a train every week and hotel breakfasts and far too many slides, but it's the first time since I moved that someone here picked me for something, and I said yes before they had finished the sentence. Language class at 7am continues and I can now argue with the teacher, which she says is progress. Most days I'm the last one out of the office and then I walk home, thirty-five minutes, no podcast. Lu, you told me on the phone and I still want the long version. I hope you wrote it all down here.

The tools you have aren’t helping.

Not your friends.

On Instagram, four minutes of every hour go to your friends.¹

DearAll is your friends and nobody else.

Addictive by design.

Social feeds are tuned for time on screen.

DearAll is one edition a month. Nothing to scroll.

Always on.

The group chat runs while you work or sleep.

DearAll waits for you: answer when it suits you.

Always shallow.

Group chats run on quick reactions, back and forth.

DearAll gives you weeks to sit down and go deeper.

Built to help you stay close, not to keep you scrolling.

Read our philosophy

For the price of a coffee.

We do one thing: keep your circle in touch. No ads, no data to sell, no one else to please.

Only one of you pays
Up to 15 of you take part
Stop anytime

€3.50 / month

for the whole circle

First month free.

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A card is asked at the last step and checked with one cent. Nothing else is charged before your second edition.

Good to know.

What do my friends have to do?: They sign up once with a name and an email, and everything after that arrives in their inbox. No app, no password, nothing to pay.
What if someone doesn’t answer?: The edition goes out with what came in, as long as one of you answered. Nobody has to answer every question, and the reminders do the asking.
How much time does it take?: A few lines are fine. The best editions come from sitting down and going in depth, and you have three weeks to find that moment.
How many emails will we get?: A handful a month, all about your friends: one to propose, one to answer, a reminder or two, then the edition. News from us only if you ask for it.
Is it private?: Yes. Only your circle reads the edition, and nobody in it sees anyone’s answers early, not even whoever started it: they arrive for everyone at once.
What happens to our answers and photos?: They are stored in Europe and deleted two months after each edition. The email in your inbox stays, and that one is yours to keep.
Which languages does it come in?: English, Spanish, Dutch or French. You pick one for the circle, and every email and every edition arrives in that language, for all of you, wherever you are.
Who decides the questions?: You choose them for the first edition. From the second one on, anyone in the circle can add their own.

Nicolas on the beach at Vlieland — Vlieland, the Netherlands

Why we built it.

Nine years ago I moved from Argentina to the Netherlands. I had Instagram, Facebook and WhatsApp, and I still struggled to stay in touch with my friends back home. The feed showed me less of my friends and more of strangers. The group chat happened while I slept. So I built the tool I was missing. It started with my own circles and spread by word of mouth. Today I know how my friends back home are doing.

Nicolas, founder

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First month free.

Made in the Netherlands· Stored in Europe· No ads, no feed, no data sold

¹ Meta's own January 2025 figures, cited in the court's opinion: 17% of time on Facebook and 7% on Instagram goes to friends' content. FTC v. Meta, Memorandum Opinion (2025) ↩